A day in the life

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A lovely reader (Hi, Naomi!) suggested I conclude my Dummie’s Guide to ME/CFS with a “day in the life”, to illustrate what it is like to live with this illness. I won’t lie to you: this piece is long, mundane and tedious, but so is living with chronic illness. It is boring. There are no breaks. And the little things that you wouldn’t even think about, like showering, watching TV and leaving the house, form the greatest challenges of my day.

Unfortunately, my health has deteriorated significantly since writing this piece, so it isn’t an accurate reflection of how I live now. Rather, it stands as a record of what was probably one of the most “well” and functional periods I have had in the last 6 years, and serves as a goal for me to aspire to. I’ll update with more on my relapse when my health has stabilised some. (EDIT: you can read more on my relapse in my post, Relapses: Fear and Loathing in Chronic Illness.)

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Vintage Vogue 8789, or, I love op shops

G’day! Today I’ve got a particularly frothy creation to share with you. The pattern is Vogue 8789, a vintage reprint. Vogues are expensive in Australia, but V8789 is one of those patterns where both variations are so lovely and unique, that it seems better value for money than shelling out the same amount for one basic design. I sewed variation A, which has a bias-cut bodice and v-neckline.

A woman poses in a garden, wearing a 50s style frock in a floral print
Tights are Sophie by Transparenze with the waistband cut off because holy shit they are constrictive. Mel shoes, $3 from Salvos. “FUCK” ring, Ruby Pilven Ceramics.

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Mean Girlzzz: How dissenting women are silenced in the online sewing community

An image of the Mean Girls cast, with fingers to their lips.

From a young age, women are taught to suppress their voices. Women who offer opinions in the public sphere or voice dissent risk being labelled “shrill”, “nagging”, or “bitchy”. It is disappointing, but not surprising, when men try to silence women with dated stereotypes. What is truly upsetting is when women join in, and become complicit in their own oppression. Yet I believe this is what is happening in some pockets of the online sewing community.

We have internalised misogynist stereotypes about women, to our downfall. Some women in the online sewing community feel unable to criticise or be honest about their experiences with patterns, lest they be perceived as damaging friendships or being “mean girls”. These stereotypes are perpetuated with faux feminist campaigns that are so anti-women they would make 70s Germaine Greer weep.* Continue reading “Mean Girlzzz: How dissenting women are silenced in the online sewing community”

A Dummies’ Guide to ME/CFS: Part V, Research & Conclusion

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Each week, I am publishing a part in a series about ME/CFS. This is Part V, in which I discuss current research into ME/CFS, and conclude the series. You can find links to the other posts in the series at the bottom of this post. Thanks for reading!

Last week, I discussed the negative attitudes held towards ME/CFS by many healthcare professionals, and the implications of the name “chronic fatigue syndrome.” This week, I’m wrapping it up with research and suggestions for the newly diagnosed. Thanks for sticking with me, folks!

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Free vintage lingerie patterns

Hey folks! I was discussing vintage patterns on Pattern Review and mentioned that I had a few images of vintage patterns for lingerie, which I thought might be worth sharing.

They are draft-your-own patterns, based on diagrams from which you plug in your measurements and draft a perfectly-fitted pattern. If you want a vintage slip, some cami-knickers or tap pants, this is an easy (and free!) way to get started. I can’t vouch for them all, but the pattern I made from the Princess Slip diagram was a success.

Click the images below or check them all out on my album.

Panelled Slip

Pattern for a panelled slip

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More Elle pants and a Named Sointu

A woman wears Style Arc Elle Pant in berry and Named Sointu Tee in stripes

I did promise you there would be more Elle pants coming, and I’m a woman who sticks by her word! Like my last pair, these were made in bengaline from the Spotlight clearance table, though I think they were more like $6/m, making this project a costly $10 total. What can I say, I’m a scrooge.*

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Living with Bob: lack of accessibility for rural patients

Hi guys! The lovely Michelle from Living with Bob is running a series of guest posts for dysautonomia awareness month. She was kind enough to publish a piece I wrote about the unique challenges rural patients face in accessing adequate healthcare.

Princes Highway Ulladulla, 1920s
It’s a long way to the nearest city. Photo may be slightly out of date.

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